February / March #89 : Date Bait

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Rapid Test Time

The Love Cure

Date Bait

Make It Last Forever

To Die For

A Gallo Gotcha

Neg & Pos

That '70s Show

Tribute: Tom Fahey



Heavy Medals

Sign Of The Times

Thief of HAARTs

Shine Some Light

Hokey Pokey

AIDS Acts Axed

Good China

Copay Through The Nose


Sore Winner?

Blame Candida

I Get Misty

Female Troubles

Fellow Travelers

Reality Check


America's Sweetheart

Most Popular Lessons

The HIV Life Cycle


Herpes Simplex Virus

Syphilis & Neurosyphilis

Treatments for Opportunistic Infections (OIs)

What is AIDS & HIV?

Hepatitis & HIV

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February / March 2003

Date Bait

We collected tips from POZ friends for those whose first date will be at least a threesome: you, the potential new honey and a pesky virus (or two).

TRUTH SERUM: "My advice for first dates, HIV or no HIV, is the same: Tell the friggin' truth. People who have HIV should want people who can't handle it to go away so that they can move on and find someone who can. On the flip side, I wouldn't announce that I want to be spanked before the waiter arrived to offer us menus -- but if that was central to my sex life, I wouldn't keep it from my new romance until after we bought a house, either."

-- Dan Savage, sex-advice columnist, Seattle

PLAY DATE: "Keep your sense of humor and play -- that's what a first date should be about. For me, it's important to remember that I don't have to marry the person."

-- Krishna Stone, Gay Men's Health Crisis, New York City

LOOSE GOOSE: "Just go ahead and enjoy it -- and don't fret about impressing. Desperation is rarely an attractive quality."

-- Cal Cohen, MD, community doc, Boston

SILENT NOT: "Start talking the second you get there -- don't even stop for breath. Starting a date with awkward silences can be so romance-crushing you both might never recover."

-- Michael Musto, Village Voice columnist, New York City

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