June 29, 2007

Why is it so difficult to meet guys who are positive?

Why is it so difficult to meet guys who are positive? I am not bad looking, I don’t do drugs, I own a car, I have my own income, I am a clean person and I am easy to get along with.

The only thing I want is to date a nice guy that likes simple things. I know that location is a barrier and in some cases race is an issue. I have come to see that most white guys look at black guys as a sex object. I would love to think this is not the case, but I see it again and again. OK so I haven’t written off white guys but I have come to see mixed dating as a hard thing to get past. I have tried to date my own race of guys, but that’s a problem because many don’t come forward that they are HIV.

I would like to spend time with someone and it would be nice to get laid and for it be someone I have feelings for. It’s been over 10 years since I have had love in my life. I would just like having someone to enjoy life with and not to be alone.

Mel Allen
Minneapolis
allenattwincity@yahoo.com