October / November 2013
A Test of Kindness
by Casey Halter
Maria Mejia was 18 years old when she found out she was HIV positive in 1991. She had just entered a job-training program in Kentucky, which provided free HIV testing. The program was supposed to be a new beginning for the Miami-born teen, who sought a fresh start from an abusive and troubled childhood.
Mejia assumes she got HIV from her first boyfriend, the leader of her former gang. After doctors told her she had AIDS and that AZT, the only HIV treatment at the time, could be harmful, Maria decided to forgo medication and move back with her parents, expecting to die.
Twenty-four years later, Mejia is doing well on treatment, although she still struggles with side effects and mental challenges from the virus. She now volunteers for the Red Cross and works in the Miami area as a pre- and post-counselor who tests people for HIV.
“When I tell someone they are HIV positive,” Mejia says, “I hold them and say, ‘You are not alone, and if you do what you are supposed to do you will live a long life.’”
Mejia is part of an anti-stigma campaign for the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) and is an ambassador for both Dab the AIDS Bear Project and The Stigma Project. She also advocates for LGBT issues.
The Colombian-American activist blogs regularly in both English and Spanish for The Well Project and TheBody.com and is in the process of writing a memoir.
What three words best describe you?
Fighter, activist and passionate.
What is your greatest achievement?
When I inspire young people with my story and they tell me they are now protecting themselves. If I save one life, my mission is complete.
If you could change one thing about living with HIV, what would it be?
No more medicine. I want a cure. Or at least live with the virus but take something once that won’t let the virus affect our T cells.
What is the best advice you ever received?
Talk less, listen more. To forgive is one of the most important things you can do for yourself. To wish light and love to everyone—even the ones that attack us or hurt us. It is important for our spirit.
If you had to evacuate your house immediately, what is the one thing you would grab on the way out?
Besides my beautiful partner/wife Lisa Laing and my dog Flea, I would grab my jewelry.
Search: Maria Mejia, Miami, Florida, Red Cross, Dab the AIDS Bear Project, The Stigma Project
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jorge, miami, 2013-10-31 10:01:02
I all ready make a coment on maria story, wonderfull, I dont know how and were to make a coment regarding Obama Care, did you really think that any any any of the Obama Care will pay $2,338,90 for my meds. every month. (stribil)for the rest of my life with, 28 years living whit HIV. can you answer that, I dont think sooooooooo, thanks I am very looky to have a job that offered ins. other wise no way jose that i will get meds whit Obama Care, have a great day.
Butch McKay, Ft. Walton Beach, FL, 2013-10-29 11:08:26
You are truly amazing and your story is your strength. Thank you for making it your mission to support and protect others. Your passion is complemented by your compassion. Your greatest achievemnt has been met many times over and will continue to repeat itself. You are an angel to so many Maria. May love continue to sustain you and push you to greatness.
jorge, miami, 2013-10-29 09:11:38
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maria que muchas bendiciones parati siempre, eres un ser especial con una fuerza espiritual increible, me identifico con tus experiencia, fortaleza y esperanza,ejemplo a seguir, gracias, gracias, y que el dios de tu entendimiento te de larga vida para que otros seres humanos se ayuden con tu testimonio y podamos ver la cura o alguna vacuna que sea efectiva para no tener que tomar diariamente medicina, sin conocerte en persona te admiro y te quiero mucho, gracias grcias, gracias