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Its good to dating someone with same status
It's very hard to date positive.i have love to give
Boy oh boy, Smh. What a load of crap, I agree with Todds statement in this article the most. It's a fucking shitshow out here gay men are the worst, uneducated don't ask don't tell, but when you disclose they act like you're a monster. But if you don't tell they don't ask, now that something to be afraid of. I know I will be alone until my dying day. It is what is, it beats rejection, being treated badly, ignored, chastised, and made to feel less than. I do that enough on my own, thanks.
POZ does make it easier to meet someone but locally for ppl not on POZ it can be difficult. Disclosing my health stat isn’t the first topic of discussion n not to protect the other individual but myself for fear that once info is out I could get labeled as "that guy is sick." I feel having several conversations on different topics is important since we may not be compatible at all n differ on different subjects. Should topic of health issues from other person is on table then I will.
I try to live with hiv without telling my family
Dating with HIV is so hard, but when you are a gay, it could be harder. What a lucky thing is we have the site poz.com. Someone at the site ever told me other sites but I think poz.com is the best site for gay with HIV.
I am a heterosexual man. When is the right time to disclose my status if I begin dating a woman who is hiv negative
Deremi
My last relationship was with a poz person. It had its moments. He didn't tell me about his status, I got to find out one day I was over at his place. I was looking through his closet for what I could wear and happened on his Meds. It goddamn nearly broke me, I waited for him to return and told him my discovery. He'd wanted to tell me but claimed I was too sweet and he didn't want to lose me. We dated 4 years (it wasn't all a bed of roses and yeah I am still negative).
March 28, 2023 • Lagos