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I’ve been looking through these testimonials and I can just say that I haven’t found one that hit quite as hard as this one. I to have made the mistake of feeling the feeling of betrayal. I actually just told my best friend a couple weeks ago and the shock was immense but the relief was something else. Having it off my chest. Made me wish I had told them 5 years ago. The other thing is that it’s ok to hate this situation and no one ever says that. Thank you for that.
I wrote this letter to HIV after 10 years of having been diagnosed and have come along way. I still have sad moments of thoughts, but have accepted who I am and my chronic disease. I can speak about it openly with those willing to hear and talk about it. I appreciate all the comments on my letter. I am here for all of you.
hi pamela so sorry to hear how you feel .I felt the same when I found out in 2009 it was the day I put my mums ashes to rest ,they called me in and said I need to go on med straight away.then they relised by my face id hadn't been told what for so it wasn't a good day for me.but over the years I have and you will come to terms with it.i now have a partner who knows about me and not a prob so iam sure you will one day too if you need to chat please email me take care alan
Ms. Biafora, your letter is incredible. Some of the emotions expressed in your letter were the same emotions I experienced after being diagnosed in 2002. Even though my health is good (the occasional medical affliction notwithstanding), occasionally, my thoughts also go to myself as being damaged & unworthy. Reading these survival stories though reminds me that I did not give up. What's in the past is in the past. Personal motto: Love life. Live life. Thanks for the reminder. Be well.
Dear Pamela, Thank you so much for your story....I have been diagnosed in 1987 as well, thus living with HIV for many years. I know the struggles we face, especially when it comes to relationship.Just know, you are not alone..there are many like you and I out there on this planet..wish I could give you a hug right now and tell you we will be alright.Sometimes, I need a hug too...but it's hard to find that someone out there to give you the hug that you need..but here you go..hugs from me to u:)
I feel the same way right now and I just gotten hiv this year in May but I feel the same damn way...
Hi Pamela. I'm so sorry for everything. I really can't imagine what you are going through right now. I'm really sorry. Life must be harsh on you. But I believe you can be so strong someday that you won't care about this disease. You must be really devastated about it. Stay strong Pamela.
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I appreciate all the past responses to my post from 2016. My update is I have fully accepted and have worked through all my past feeling and put a positive spin to my life. Since 2016 I found groups and counseling that help me immensely. Took classes like Chronic Disease Self Management courses. Loved it and applied to my life, as well as, became a facilitator of this course. Took classes and became certified as a NYS Peer Navigator. Work for community based organizations. I'm Happy
August 6, 2020 • Ronkonkoma