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This story was very inspirational. I am currently in a similar situation. I recently went to get STD tested, and got a call back from the clinic. My primary doctor told me I had Dermatitis, so I had no expectation of having an STD. When I found this out, my boyfriend called. I thought of keeping the possibility from him until I knew what I had, but I asked myself, "Would I like to know if I were in any danger?" I told him, and, unlike what I expected, he loved me anyway and comforted me. I was expecting to have Herpes, but instead, I had something curable, Gonnorhea. I got treated, then he got treated and went in for tests. We are now waiting for his results, and since his treatment, he found out one of his exes was HIV positive. He is now in my position, and I totally stand by him, no matter what the results are. The one thing to remember in having any type of intimacy. It is the ailment that is being combatted, the body that is being treated, and the love you share for one another that gets you through whatever obstacles may come. You are an amazing person, and I thank you for what you do for our community.
I know the feeling all too well. I'm a young woman, that some may find attractive. I usually disclose as soon as possible, but I've learned that may be too much for some people. I've never really been rejected and learning to dealing with rejection has been quite the mountain to climb. For awhile I decided to date only poz men, but then I began to feel like I was socially quarantining myself from others. Although there is nothing wrong with dating poz men, I don't want that to be the only thing we have in common. Sex is a wonderful thing, but I want more than that. Lol what's a girl to do?! I love sex, but I don't like meaningless, pointless, dead end sex.
I'll admit It's very hard finding someone to be with being infected with the hiv virus but what I read interest me on a interracial relationship style but let me know if interested I'd love to spend time with you and learn something new no doubt thanks for letting me share that much with you and God bless you beautiful and good luck finding that person but listen a change of venue is what I welcome bye.
I'll admit It's very hard finding someone to be with being infected with the hiv virus but what I read interest me on a interracial relationship style but let me know if interested I'd love to spend time with you and learn something new no doubt thanks for letting me share that much with you and God bless you beautiful and good luck finding that person but listen a change of venue is what I welcome bye.
Anjie Keyes in Kansas City Mo. Positivley Rare
OMG Your topic is right on I am 55 and been there done all them things. So for the past 5yrs I've been celibate after the demise of my marriage,and by choice because I could have done it so different and had all the sex if that was what I wanted, but like you Rae, I would never want to take a person choices away like someone did me I tell I am living with HIV because I am and because I chose to. I am so loving me for the Woman that I have become for these up to 20yrs and following you as me comrade and Shero. Most say my expectations are to high I say get a taller ladder its all good. At times most many I don't know what I want when it comes to relationships, but I do know that it is mandatory that it and Peaceful and that is my responsibility to keep. I have purposed in my life to focus on me and walk in what I believe is my purpose, plan and relationship with the lord. I have been living and counting on his direction He does superb, I had to learn to listen. leaving 2013 I have had new developments for possibilities but nothing that I am going to try to control Wow that alone is change for me. So I am going,growing and under constant construction but I stand on a solid rock and trust the builder who has my very best at heart. Thank you My Lord. Thank you for your openness and putting forth the subject I will pose it to sisters in my + community and keep you posted. most Love & Respect Anjie Keyes Positivley Rare in Kansas City Mo.
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Hi. I've known my status since 2008, and you have described my situation. What do you suggest in terms of disclosure to someone that is not hiv that you've met on non hiv dating sites?
March 12, 2015