You can call it a wrap, I am done with my gay bff. I have caught him sneaking to go be with his ex and a few other lies. I told him that he can no longer live with me. I usually can tolerate quite a bit but with his lying I don’t feel like I can trust him. What is surprising to me is that I am not pissed about it but more along the lines of being hurt. I actually thought our friendship meant more than his ex or his addiction. Silly me, what was I thinking? More than that, I thought getting his life back in order meant more but he has shown me it doesn’t.

When I confronted him a few hours ago, he actually tried to justify it. How do you justify lying? I am just glad that things came to light as soon as they did and not after investing in anything. What I mean by this is that there had been plans on moving into a house. Despite my feelings being hurt by his deceitfulness, I’ll just cut him out of my life as I have done countless others who I have tried to help. This too shall pass and my life will go on, lesson learned. As much as I wanted to help my friend, you can’t help those who don’t want to help themselves.