I thought I would take a moment to write about some of the comments I have received since starting my blog. I am realistic to know that many will not share my views on things and that is ok. I don’t delete any of the comments I get because even those who disagree with me have a right to their opinions. And I want those who read my blog to see those opinions.

My last entry seems to have caused quite a stir. I have been accused of being irresponsible, compared to a crack head, being dishonest and living in a fantasy world because I smoke weed. What is funny to me is how those people can pass judgement on me not knowing what I have to deal with on a daily basis. How easy it is for them to point the finger at me. I have to wonder if these people even took the time to read my blog at all or even see the posts I have written in the forums. I will address these accusations. Where shall I begin?

Let’s start with my choice to smoke weed. I have been called irresponsible. Now why is that? I take care of my bills before I indulge so how am I being irresponsible? My smoking is no longer what I consider to be recreational but medicinal. Why does someone have a problem with that? My doctors seem to understand it. If I don’t smoke, I don’t eat. Is it better to go without eating and waste away to nothing? It seems some seem to think so. I was accused of being the kettle calling the pot black because my son’s brother left his child with his mother who smokes crack. But these people seem to miss the point that the woman hit the child in the head with a blunt object. I guess they are saying I would do the same because I smoke weed. Not at all, in the first place I would be responsible enough not to watch the child considering that I would be high and the last thing I would do would be to beat a 3 month old child over the head with a blunt object. My accusers seemed to have overlooked that and focused in on my smoking weed, how convient.

Let’s talk about my being dishonest about not disclosing. Once again, did my accusers even read my blog and see the issues I have with disclosure. How I was betrayed by my own family and not even given the chance to disclose when I wanted to. Or when I was dating someone who wished this virus on his ex because she did not want to be with him anymore? But I guess if it was them, they would disclose and they would live happily ever after. Now I have to ask, who is living in a fantasy world? Not everyone is so understanding when it comes to this virus. How easy it is to point the finger and act holier than thou.

Last time I checked, I wasn’t getting any financial help from anyone and how I choose to spend my money is my business. I don’t see anyone offering to help but it is so much easier to condemn. And out of all my blog entries,my accusers chose my last one to try to blast me. No comments on other entries. I hope you guys are happy, you got noticed in this entry and by others who have read my blog. I hope it makes you feel better.

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I have spoken with the REAL Thomas and we have cleared the air about the previous comment that I thought was sent by him. I will NOT change what I have said above because it is directed at the person who is too much of a coward (in my eyes) to use their own name and had to hide behind someone else’s identity to state their opinion. How sad that you don’t have the courage to stand behind your OWN convictions and had to use someone else’s name.